Still thinking more about why I want to do this — I hope (ultimately) in order to be more clear (no pun intended) about my motivations.
As mentioned, in this class I once took on “clutter cleaning” the instructor kept asking why or what we were each letting our clutter keep us from — the guy who wanted to start his own home business but could never clear off his desk, the woman who claimed she wanted to have friends over for a dinner party but her dining room table was perpetually loaded with stuff. I thought she (the instructor) was particularly hard on those who claimed they wanted romantic relationships but couldn’t bring themselves to invite anyone into their homes for fear of embarrassment.
Her other mantra was “when you get clear, miracles happen!” And she had tons of anecdotes about someone finding a tiny slip of paper with a phone number, calling it, and then marrying its owner, or getting a job that way, or making a move (on multiple levels). In this sense, I suspect she’s right. Not about the insta-miracles necessarily, but about how living and moving in harmony with your space facilitates more ease, more contentment, even confidence, and overall, more focus in manifesting what you want in the world.
But how to apply this to my own projects? I realize, for one, on the heels of AWP, I want to get serious about a second book. And I know I have half-written poem ideas buried in computer files, in scraps on my desk, under piles of paper, in boxes, etc. That bothers me. I’d like to centralize them. I’d like to meditate more fully on their connections; I’d like to coax them into clearer, stronger existences. And I can’t do that when they’re scattered, buried, quasi-lost and might only be randomly found.
Then I think about my own relationship to my surroundings. I realize I absolutely DO prefer being in clean, aesthetic, harmonious-feeling spaces. And when my apartment is closer to that state I’m much happier. There’s a kind of edgy, can’t-take-care-of-myself as I’d like pall that envelops after walking in the door when the apartment is literally a mess, and an apologia I give to guests (although I realize it doesn’t keep me from having people over), that I feel obliged to chant. I’m not completely proud or content to live like this, and I think that’s the biggest clue that things should change, rather than wondering if I’m caving to societal expectations for cleanliness, for women, for what a living room should look like. I realize I naturally prefer a clean and harmonious space. And it irritates me to no end when I can’t find things. And I’ve also realized I like to decorate. When I’ve spent time on home improvement projects I’ve always enjoyed both the act and payoff. So, there, more motivation to note.
The instructor of said course used to emphasize getting to what she called “ground zero” — a term, absolutely in New York City, I imagine she’s since had to revise — where you’ve battled through your boxes of clutter, emptied each closets heaped with detritus, and everything is as it should be down to the bottom of each drawer, pile, floor space. Can’t say that I think I’ll ever necessarily get to that place — or at least stay there long — but working my way through the backlog, and not adding to it at the very least, does seem the thing to do right now.
My other motivation is that I might be moving. Too much to go into right now on that topic, and it wouldn’t be till the summer’s end, but I do think that if I start now I have a fighting chance of not paying (literally, whether using movers or doing it myself) for all of this accumulation by lugging stuff along I really don’t need. So that’s another clear motivation I can identify.
I’ll never be someone who wants to live in spare, neo-modern spaces. Nope, that’s not me. There’s a coldness that I feel when I’m in that sort of area, and a lack of… spark? that I don’t want. I enjoy a certain kind of creative chaos, and in fact, have been much pleased to see a recent spate of books which eschew utter neat classification and organization in preference for a sort of fertile cross-pollination of ideas. But, (again), I realize I don’t like getting into people’s junky cars (or my own when it gets that way), or being in a living room where the seat needs to be cleared off before someone can sit down. So, a balance has to be struck.
As for starting for real, however, I think I’m going to go with books. Post-AWP, I’ve brought back new armloadsful, and even I can realize I have plenty I haven’t looked at in years. Paperwork is something I think I need more encouragement for, but the books (even as it pains me to say it), I think I can do on my own, and another motivation (need to get as many in as I can!) is that I might make a bit of $$ by bringing them to my local bookstore. And I’m desperate for any additional sources of income at this time. So, books it is, concurrently followed by tax work. Each year I take an extension and then still run up against that deadline. Getting a refund (happily, always the case, although it’s really because I’m so poor), also motivates and I know I would be proud of myself for doing this on time this year. And, ideally, although taking on too much at once is one of my hallmarks, sifting through my computer files to glean out the poems that I’ve begun and at least electronically, begin sorting out the materials for this next book, is another goal.
So, here are some places to start — fifteen minutes at a time.